The 7 Second Man Mission

Passivity and the lack of formal civility among modern men is what led the founders of 7 Second Man to finally be tired enough of the way society operates to make a change, instead of simply waiting for one. 7 Second Man is a brand that pushes both what is socially acceptable and what is proper. We walk the line between grace and elegance, and social savagery. Our aim is nothing short of changing the ideas and behaviors that have been hammered into the modern man, making him weak and agreeable. From our how-to-guide on changing thought patterns and behaviors, to our personalized style concierge service, we strive to create men, real men, out of what society has wrongly molded; a weaker version of our true selves. Our services are not for the fainthearted. If you are happy holding a lesser role in life, or standing idly by in the corner as life passes, there is not much we can do for you. But if you’re ready for a radical change in your life and to get everything that you have ever wanted from the World, hold on… you are about to learn to become your truest self – 7 seconds at a time.

SERVICES WE PROVIDE

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OVERCOME INSECURITIES

How society has taught you to act:

The majority of society, both men and women, are governed by insecurity. This can be seen in the fear of talking to someone you are interested in, asking for a promotion at work, traveling to a distant location, or essentially anything else that causes a fear of failure and casts self-doubt inside of you. Most men will tip-toe through life listening to the voice that whispers vile untruths, figuring that it’s safer to lead a dull life abiding by the rules rather than face potential embarrassment or failure. You will never get what you want out of life if fear is your driving factor. The only way to grow is to break free from the mold of anxious living and become willing to be uncomfortable. Many of you are broken down very early in childhood and told that you are unworthy of greatness and can expect less from your existence, instead of being told that you can have whatever you want if you simply ask for it and put in the work that it takes to obtain it.

OVERCOME INSECURITIES

How society has taught you to act:

The majority of society, both men and women, are governed by insecurity. This can be seen in the fear of talking to someone you are interested in, asking for a promotion at work, traveling to a distant location, or essentially anything else that causes a fear of failure and casts self-doubt inside of you. Most men will tip-toe through life listening to the voice that whispers vile untruths, figuring that it’s safer to lead a dull life abiding by the rules rather than face potential embarrassment or failure. You will never get what you want out of life if fear is your driving factor. The only way to grow is to break free from the mold of anxious living and become willing to be uncomfortable. Many of you are broken down very early in childhood and told that you are unworthy of greatness and can expect less from your existence, instead of being told that you can have whatever you want if you simply ask for it and put in the work that it takes to obtain it.

SETTING BOUNDARIES

How the awakened male acts:

The awakened male understands that he will only ever be treated as poorly as he allows someone to treat him. When he stands up for himself and sets boundaries people come to respect his boundaries or they know they will no longer be part of his life. He knows what he wants, how he expects to be treated, and settles for nothing less. He reminds people of his place and theirs when these boundaries are crossed. He realizes that the boundaries he sets are a direct representation of self-respect and therefore has no problem setting these firmly in place and sticking to them.

“Nobody can give you freedom. Nobody can give you equality or justice or anything. If you’re a man, you take it”

-Malcolm X-

STYLE

“A man should look as if he has bought his clothes with intelligence, put them on with care and then forgotten all about them”

-Hardy Amies-

A whole book could be written on this topic alone but we will try to give you some insight into the why and how of it, not so much the what. Style isn’t limited to just how you dress – it’s who you are, how you carry yourself, and the overall persona you exude. Dressing is a very important part of it though, because this is the first thing people see. If you’re put together well, that’s the initial perception you give out to others subconsciously. To others, you present the idea that the rest of your life matches, is put together, and in order. On the flip side, if you show up looking sloppy, with wrinkled clothes, not matching, and looking like you just rolled out of bed and grabbed whatever was on the floor and threw it on, then you can take a pretty good guess at the impression you’ll be making.

CHARM

Think about some of the most charming men in history: John F. Kennedy, Elvis Presley, Marlon Brando, and Frank Sinatra. These icons all come to mind and all had one thing in common – charisma. People were drawn to them like magnets. These men left people feeling amazing inside and longing for more. Just being in their presence awakened something that was long dormant – something that made each person feel special and wanted. This was all charm. They had all learned how to tap into this and had this quality that they worked on continuously. There are few traits that are absolutely irresistible and learning how to get in tune with charm and putting it in your arsenal will create a sense of irresistibility amongst your peers.

The key to use charm as a daily tool is to show the same respect for everyone you come in contact with. Get on their level. Whether this is the barista at Starbucks or a CEO of a Fortune 500 company. The ability to see people as people, and not judge them by their status, sets you apart from other men. Always try to maintain a level of humility.

DISCARD OLD IDEAS

Life is too short, and can be too majestic, for you to settle. Don’t be just like the other 99% of people that follow the rules, living a life bored with monotony and dying unknown. You have more potential within yourself than you will ever realize, but it will all remain untapped by doing the same damn thing as everyone else. There is something that you are meant to do in this life. Throw your old ideas out the window, try some new ones, and find the life that’s waiting for you.

UPCOMING EVENTS

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